I mentioned that I have been putting up with a lot of negative attitude towards depression lately. It is truly unbelievable the names I have been called over the past couple of weeks from people who do not know I am suffering from depression and the demons I am fighting. The stigma that goes along with this is unbelievable. I knew about depression and the demons people faced before I became one of them. I knew it was tough and I knew it was something they could not control. But like the old saying goes “walk a mile in their shoes” . When did our society become so anti-compassionate? Or maybe its me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I have to stop, I am too fragile to just continue to put it out there. I do not have a poker face and I need to work on it, cause people just stomp on people. Everyone seems to be a critic.
So my question tonight is. Has society, due to instant media, instant gratification become instantly intolerant to people around them?
I grew up on a small town, on a farm. When someone when through tough times everyone chipped in and helped. When my Dad was killed, 16 years ago, the day after people just showed up with food. We had so much food that we filled two fridges and a table on the front porch, It was winter so it was cold, but thank God cause we couldn’t eat it fast enough.
Or is it conditioning from TV. I have a teenaged daughter, she doesn’t watch them any more but there was a time where she watched shows that were like the movie Mean Girls. It drove me nuts cause I hated the way people talked on these shows. Even a show like Glee, and the music is cool, there is this underlying theme of ” I am going to get you” in the show. Have we conditioned society to this way of thinking?
So in a nut shell here is how I am feeling and thinking at 12:30 Saturday night,I guess its really Sunday morning. I have had so many negative comments, cutting comments, made towards me in the past few weeks. I look at this sentence and think — my readers are going to think I am a bitch! ( please forgive the word, but it fits ) I really am not. I feel so deeply for those who suffer. It breaks my heart to see people in pain, and people who are lost and in need of the one true God. Just like me. But people, have never understood me, I wear my heart on my sleeve, and it gets broke. Maybe that is the problem pure and simple. I put the heart out there cause I feel for people and people tramp on it, usually due to their own demons they are fighting. I am not doing that any more. At least with those who are family or people I know well. I will put it out there for the student at my highschool who cuts themselves, or the student who is suffering from anorexia or the student who is suffering or hurting, cause someone has to put it out there for them. They just want to be heard, they just want someone – esp a adult to give a dam.
My heart hurts so much, it is such a deep pit of pain, except for my best friends – I will not put my heart out there to be trampled on. I just can’t do it anymore. I will not admit to those who know I am suffering cause some of them don’t get it. I know they want to help but don’t know what to say. So I will admit nothing, let them off the hook and avoid stupid insensitive comments. To those who cutting comments have come my way lately– I will never admit I have an illness — to do so admits that I am less than I am and it also is something they can’t wrap their heads around and I do not what their useless sympathy and pathitic looks in their eyes as they think— Oh brothers can’t she just count her blessing s and get over it! If that was something I could do — do you think I would be on the heavy duty medication I am on, and in the pain I feel in my soul?
till next time…………………